Heshy Berenholz created the topic: Musings on Parshat Vayechi
Yosef swears not to bury Yaakov in Egypt
Yaakov blesses Yosef’s sons Efraim and Menasheh and raises these grandsons to the level of his own sons, either because they didn’t fight or because he favored their father
On his deathbed, Yaakov blesses his sons and explains why Yehuda will be the nation’s leader
Yaakov dies at age 147
Yaakov’s burial in M’aras Hamachpeilah in the land of Canaan
Yosef allays his brothers’ fears
Yosef demands his brothers swear to bury him in the land of Canaan
Yosef dies at age 110
“Sim Na Yadcha Tachas Yerayche” (“Place Your Hand Under My Thigh”)
When Yaakov realizes he is dying, he calls his son Yosef and insists that when he dies he be transported out of Egypt to be buried next to his parents and grandparents in Hevron in the Land of Canaan. Even after Yosef immediately agrees to this request to be buried in the cave of Machpeilah Field, Yaakov demands that he swear to it by placing his hand on Yaakov’s thigh.
Ibn Ezra views this as a symbol of submission.
The words mean and convey that failure to do what is requested will result in sterility, since children issue from the area of the thigh or loins of their father. Alternatively, it may mean that the children will avenge the act of disloyalty. Thighs may have been viewed as the locus of power because of their proximity to the genitalia.
This oath may have involved touching the genitalia, and the oath’s power derived from swearing on a holy item of commandment (i.e., circumcised male member—which represents a sign of the Covenant between Man and God). Today courts use a Bible for the administration of an oath because that Book is considered to be the most holy thing Man possesses. It is the holiest thing between Man and God.
The Latin word for testes is similar to testimony or testifies. In ancient Greece testicles of slaughtered animals were used in deciding homicide cases. It has been said that the most ancient way of administering an oath was by placing the hand between the thighs on the genitals. In ancient Roman courts, men took oaths while holding testicles (though some claim this is not true).
• Made his home in Egypt for 17 years...coincidentally (?) the same number of years Yosef lived with him in Canaan before being sold into slavery
• Makes his son Yosef swear not to bury him in Egypt
• On his deathbed, is visited by Yosef who comes with his two sons
• Initially does not recognize his grandsons, inquiring “who are these?” [He appears to have been taken aback and surprised either because they were dressed in Egyptian garb or because of a vision he had predicting that some of their descendants would be less-than-model Jews.] Yosef responds that “…these are my sons whom God has given me in this place”. Rabbi R.Y. Eisenman of Passaic, N.J. hears in Yosef’s words the voice of the proud father who asserts that he loves his sons unconditionally no matter how they dress now and no matter what their progeny may turn out to be. He is pleading with his father not to be put off by the garb and the life style choices they and/or their offspring may make because they are his children whom he loves deeply. Yaakov, the “zaydi” accepts his son’s advice and “he kissed them and embraced them” [i.e., Yosef’s sons]. The Torah is showing us by example, how we must kiss and embrace our children and love them unconditionally— both those who are our “clones”, and especially those who have chosen a different path in their lives. Never forget, concludes Rabbi Eisenman that our children, our special gift from God, need and want our unconditional love.
• Confers a special blessing on Yosef’s sons Menashe and Efraim and elevates them to the tribal status of his own sons, in reversal of primogeniture (the right of the first-born child, usually the eldest son, to inherit the parents' entire estate) using language that, according to Robert Alter, is a formula of legal adoption.
• Menashe and Efraim appear to be the only set of brothers that are not plagued with the effects of sibling rivalry that dominate the behavior and emotions of brothers in the book of Bereshit: Cain and Hevel; Yaakov and Eisav; Yosef and his brothers
• Recognizing that there was a protective divine force (angel) by his side throughout his life, blesses Yosef with the prayer Hamalach Hagoayl Osi (“May the angel sent by God to look after me from the time I was born until now, bless these boys and may they be called by my name and by the name of my fathers Avraham and Yitzchak…”)
• In blessing Yosef’s sons, places his right hand on the head of Efraim, the younger son and his left hand on the head of Menashe, the older son
• Acknowledges Yosef’s protestations that he should have placed his right hand on the head of Menashe, the first born, but explains that the younger brother is destined to be greater than the older one
• Continues blessing his grandsons saying “The nation of Israel will always bless its children stating ‘ may God make you like Efraim and Menashe’ purposely saying Efraim first ” (presumably to indicate that Efraim would take precedence in the order of tribes)
• Says to Yosef “…I have given you Shechem achad above your brothers which I took from the hand of the Amorite with my sword and with my bow.” The Hebrew phrase Shechem achad literally means “one shoulder.”
o Some interpret this to refer to the city of Shechem
o Benno Jacob argues that this refers to the piece of land Yaakov bought near Shechem for 100 pieces of money which he is now giving to Yosef as a burial place. His reference to sword and bow is a witty reference meaning his conquest utilized peaceful “weapons” (i.e., silver “bullets” to pay for it)
o Robert Alter notes that the phrase occurs in only one other place in Tanach (Zephaniah 3:9) where it is used adverbially to mean “with one consent” or “with one accord”. Accordingly, Yaakov is giving his “concerted, unswerving intention and execution” to the legal elevation of his grandsons and to the transfer of land he captured from the Emorites
• Gathers his sons around his death bed, to share his opinion of them and what will befall their descendants at some later point in the future
• Begins with Leah’s six sons, then the four sons of the two handmaidens and ends with Rachel’s two sons. Yehuda and Yosef are the prime figures; ten of the twenty three verses are devoted to them
• God and religion are avoided, with the exception of the one verse “I wait for thy salvation O Lord.” According to Abravanel (cited by Rabbi B.S.Jacobson), Yaakov’s comments on the nature and character of each of his sons is in explanation of why Yehuda is destined to be the leader of the Israelite nation.
Reuven, who should have been the leader by virtue of being the firstborn, is unsuitable to lead because of his reckless behavior (“unstable as water”)
Cursed are the fierce rage and cruel fury of Shimon and Levi who, with their instruments of crime, have killed men in anger (when they tricked and then murdered the residents of Chamor and his son Shechem’s city to avenge the rape of their sister Dina)
The leadership scepter will never leave Yehuda, whose brothers will acknowledge and submit to him; who will maintain military leadership; and who will exhibit mature deliberation and stubborn determination. According to Benno Jacob’s interpretation, a reconciliation of the tribes after they split into the Northern and Southern kingdoms is hoped-for at sacred Shilo, the center of Israel before King David, where great national events took place. Yehuda will become the largest tribe and will occupy about half the land…Yehuda is characterized by his father as a crouching, awesome lion. He is the one among the brothers who experiences the most dramatic personality change-- able to resist his brothers plan to murder their brother Yosef; willing to admit error during the Tamar incident; and then standing up to and trying to convince the Egyptian ruler to release his baby brother Benyamin from prison even at the possible risk to his own life
Zevulun, whose seacoast border will extend northward to Sidon, the great Phoenician trade city, will be occupied with marine commerce
Yissachar is strong but lazy. But with his powerful body, he will work hard to develop the land, and will have no interest in engaging in war
Dan, who will not live in the security of fortified settlements, is a just judge and valiant fighter, who will
avenge Israel’s enemies with guerilla warfare, much like a horned viper that bites the horse’s heel causing the horse and rider to fall backward
Gad, whose inheritance will be on the eastern side of the Jordan River, will retaliate against attacking enemy raiders utilizing darting, agile lethal assault by attacking their heel (with snake imagery reminiscent of the serpent in the Eden story)
Asher’s lush inheritance will provide the richest foods and tasty delights, enabling him to be a royal provider… but never a king
Naphtali , a faithful servant, is compared to a full-bearing dependable field that grows beautiful trees or, according to others, is like a free-spirited deer that delivers beautiful words or messages of victory
Yosef is a handsome man to whom girls are attracted but, because he is hated by his brothers, cannot be their leader. He has the blessings of fruitfulness and military security. He remains resolute and is a shepherd and builder of Israel
Benyamin, whose descendants will be known for martial prowess (like a wolf that grabs and tears its prey and devours plunder) lacks balance of judgment
Yaakov dies and is…
Mourned for a total of seventy days
Brought to the land of Canaan accompanied by his sons and by an extensive Egyptian entourage consisting of dignitaries, chariots and horsemen for protection and to assure Yosef and his family’s return to Egypt
Buried in the Cave in the field of Machpeilah next to his wife Leah
o Reassures his brothers that he will provide for them [“…for am I instead of God?”] and that all of their behavior was part of a Divine master plan to establish a great nation of Israel. (The brothers, fearing his wrath, had told him that their father had asked Yosef to forgive their offenses and then they offered to be his slaves.) Rabbi Jonathan Sacks again emphasizes that Yosef’s behavior toward his brothers “is the first recorded moment in history in which one human being forgives another” and that “humanity changed the day Yosef forgave his brothers. When we forgive and are worthy of being forgiven, we are no longer prisoners of our past”
o Makes his brothers swear that when God eventually releases the nation of Israel from Egypt “take my bones out of here”
o Is one hundred and ten years old when he dies, is embalmed and is placed in a sarcophagus in Egypt
On Grandfathers and Grandchildren
Yaakov’s blessing to his grandsons may have been selected as the blessing of fathers to their sons on Friday night because Efraim and
Menashe were the first Israelite sons born in exile who kept the religion. Also, they were the only brothers in the Torah who seemed to get along. These hopes for observance and harmony are what we want to transmit to our children.
There are many examples in the Torah of parents blessing children but Yaakov’s is the sole instance of grandparent blessing a grandchildren. Rabbi Sacks points out that the relationship between parent and child is not always smooth, but the grandparent/grandchild relationship is always filled with love and caring. Grandparents bless their grandchildren and are blessed by them. Therefore, he suggests, this grandparent blessing became the model of parental blessing.
Rabbi Joshua ben Levi states “whoever teaches his grandson Torah is regarded as if he had received the Torah from Mt. Sinai”. But elsewhere he says “whoever hears the parasha from his grandchild is as if he heard it directly from Mt. Sinai”. Clearly Rabbi Joshua recognized the double privilege of teaching and being taught by our grandchildren. The interaction with his grandchildren brought Yaakov’s troubled life to a serene conclusion. Rabbi Sacks concludes that, like Yaakov, we want to transmit to our children the concern for and optimism about the future.
The book of Bereshit starts with birth and ends with Yosef’s death and burial in a coffin. It began with God and His breathing life and bringing stability into what was primordial disorder, desolation and darkness. Robert Alter notes that Yosef’s death brings to close the Torah’s history of the early generations of the world but also begins a new cycle of creation--this time the formation of the nation of Israel-- with a proliferation of births and a realization of the divine blessings to Mankind to be fruitful and multiply. Yosef’s dark coffin yields to the open tevah (ark) in the Nile in which baby Moshe is hidden. The imagery of the little ark in the river is reminiscent of the second “creation and rebirth” that Noach and his tevah passengers experienced after the destructive flood that annihilated a sinful society.